The first thing I built twice, and what the second one taught me
What changes when you make the same object again already knowing how it failed.
Building the same object a second time is faster and better not because the second attempt is made more carefully in some general sense, but because it already knows exactly where the first attempt failed, and can correct precisely that point while leaving everything that worked the first time exactly as it was.
Where a second attempt actually improves
A builder repeating a project does not usually go back over every decision from first principles, checking each one with the same fresh uncertainty the first attempt had to work through. Instead, everything that worked the first time is simply repeated as before, without a second thought given to it, and real attention goes only to the specific point that actually failed, adjusted based on exactly how and where it gave way. This targeted correction is why a second attempt so often produces an improvement out of proportion to the extra effort it takes, since that effort is concentrated exactly where the first attempt's own failure pointed, rather than spread thinly across a design that, apart from that one point, already worked well enough. A first attempt at anything new has to spend a great deal of its effort simply deciding what to do at all, weighing options with no real evidence yet about which of them will actually hold up, and a second attempt skips almost all of that deciding, arriving instead with one specific, tested question already answered by the failure itself.
The baking comparison
Baking the same recipe a second time after a first attempt came out with a soft, undercooked centre demonstrates the same targeted correction outside of any workshop. The improvement does not usually come from changing the recipe wholesale or being more careful about every single step, since the parts that already worked, the proportions of the ingredients, the mixing, the shape of the tin, are simply repeated exactly as before. What changes is the one variable clearly linked to the actual failure, the oven turned down slightly and the time extended, or the same temperature held for a few extra minutes, a single well-aimed correction addressing exactly what went wrong rather than a blanket increase in care applied to a process that, apart from that one point, was already right.
What this changes in practice
Because a second attempt is aimed rather than merely careful, it is also usually far quicker to complete than the first, since most of the decisions involved have already been made and confirmed to work, leaving only the corrected section to think through again properly. This is also why a first attempt at anything is worth finishing and testing rather than abandoning partway through at the first sign of trouble, since a completed, tested, even badly failed first attempt hands the second attempt a specific, known point to fix, while an abandoned first attempt leaves nothing but the same general uncertainty to start over with.
Where this stops helping
The advantage only holds if the actual cause of the first failure has been correctly identified, since a correction aimed at the wrong cause wastes the entire benefit a second attempt should have. A failure caused by something outside the design itself, a one-off flaw in a piece of material or a fluke of the conditions on the day, can easily be mistaken for a flaw in the technique or the plan, and a second attempt built around fixing the wrong thing can fail again in exactly the same place, for exactly the same reason, while the builder remains convinced the problem has already been solved. Guarding against this usually means changing only the one thing genuinely suspected of causing the failure and leaving everything else untouched, since a second attempt that changes several things at once, hoping one of them addresses the real cause, forfeits the very advantage a targeted second attempt is supposed to have, and if it still fails there is no way to tell which of the several changes mattered.
My key error with this
The part I was mounting was different from the one I had mounted a few weeks earlier, so I treated the whole job as a new problem, drew a new bracket from a blank sketch and worked the loads out again from the beginning. It was only when I had the finished thing in my hand, next to the earlier one, that I noticed how close they were, since the fixing centres were almost identical, the load was arriving from the same direction and the only genuine difference was the shape of the object being held. I had spent an evening rebuilding something I already owned because the part on top of it looked unfamiliar. What replaced the belief is that novelty in one component says nothing about novelty in the thing supporting it, and that the honest first question on any second attempt is which parts of this problem I have actually solved before, asked before the blank sketch is opened rather than after the second version is finished.