Both tubes of epoxy are half the glue
Why the mixing ratio is a chemical requirement rather than a guideline.
Neither tube of a two-part epoxy is glue on its own, the resin is one half of a chemical reaction and the hardener is the other half, and only when they are combined in the proportion the manufacturer specifies does the reaction have enough of both ingredients to link every molecule into the solid, rigid network that makes a cured joint strong.
The chemistry behind an epoxy cure
Epoxy resin contains molecules with a particular reactive chemical group at each end, and the hardener, sometimes confusingly also a liquid that looks much like the resin itself, contains a different reactive group that specifically links to it. Mixing them lets these groups find each other and join, resin molecule to hardener molecule, over and over, building outward into a single interlinked lattice rather than a loose tangle of separate molecules, which is what gives cured epoxy its strength and rigidity compared to either liquid on its own. This is not a case of one ingredient dissolving or being carried by the other, it is a stoichiometric reaction, meaning it proceeds according to a fixed numerical ratio between the reactive groups on each side, so if either ingredient runs short relative to the other, the reaction runs out of partners for whatever is left over and simply stops there, leaving the surplus sitting in the mix unreacted. Time alone cannot finish the job in that case, since curing time only affects how quickly the reactive groups that do have a partner find each other, and no additional waiting supplies a partner to a molecule the mix never provided one for in the first place.
The baking-soda comparison
Mixing bicarbonate of soda with vinegar demonstrates the same limiting arrangement in a reaction most people have watched fizz as a child. Adding a small splash of vinegar to a large spoonful of baking soda produces some fizzing, but a great deal of the powder is left sitting at the bottom of the container once the fizzing stops, unreacted and still recognisably baking soda, because the vinegar ran out first and there was nothing left for the remaining powder to react with. Adding a large volume of vinegar to only a pinch of baking soda produces the mirror image, a brief fizz followed by a jar mostly full of plain, unreacted vinegar. In both cases the leftover ingredient has not become part of anything new, it is simply sitting there as itself, exactly the fate of surplus resin or surplus hardener left over from an epoxy mixed in the wrong ratio.
The one number worth remembering
The correct ratio for a given epoxy is fixed by its particular chemistry and is not always close to equal parts, some formulations call for as little as one part hardener to five parts resin by volume, and getting that ratio wrong, even by what feels like a small margin when judging two blobs by eye, can leave enough of one ingredient without a partner that the cured result stays soft, tacky or brittle indefinitely, since no amount of extra curing time supplies the missing half of the reaction.
What this changes in practice
Because the ratio is a chemical requirement and not a rough guideline, measuring by equal-length beads squeezed from two tubes only works reliably when the manufacturer's ratio genuinely is close to one to one, and even then the two tubes rarely dispense at exactly the same rate for a given squeeze. Weighing the two parts, or using syringes or a ratio-marked mixing tray designed for the specific product, removes the guesswork that eyeballing two blobs of similar-looking liquid invites, and a joint that sets soft or stays tacky for days after mixing is far more often a sign of an incorrect ratio than of a fault in the glue itself. Thorough mixing matters just as much as the ratio does, since two correctly proportioned but poorly stirred liquids leave pockets where one ingredient is locally short of the other even though the overall amounts in the cup were exactly right, producing the same soft, unreacted patches a wrong ratio would, scattered through an otherwise sound joint rather than spread evenly through it.